If pain is somewhere present, either consciously or unconsciously, it strips away my confidence. Maybe you feel the same way. I think, “uh-oh, what if people ‘find out’ and they realize that I am a fraud… or broken… (or whatever)?”
It is probably our greatest fear that if they “found out” that it would confirm that we are less than worthy or there is something wrong with us or we are weak and vulnerable. So, we shirk away. We don’t want MORE pain so we don’t take risks or we fear success or are terrified of failing or getting hurt because we know how fragile we really are.
When we begin to refocus our mind using hypnosis away from pain and on to value we begin to feel confident! How does this happen?! If I was handed a $10,000 check and told to give it to someone, how would we feel about it? I bet you would walk right up to that person and hand them the check with a big smile on your face and full of confidence! That’s because when you REALLY know the value of yourself you become confident in sharing it with people. What hypnosis can really do is to show that your value is INTRINSIC, that is, coming from you as a person and not some validation from outside! Confident people value themselves. People that value themselves are confident.
When you see your value and are confident in it, you start to see the possibilities of this life! How exciting is that?! When you start to believe in yourself, I mean REALLY believe, you start to look toward the future as a positive thing, not anchored in the past or afraid of what’s coming. When you hold your head up you can see where you are going and far more easily develop a sense of purpose!
People with purpose know what to do next! Let’s say you are on a trip and you have to change planes and the connection is a tight one. When you know where you need to be and when you will know instantly what you need to do. I need to find the right terminal and gate. I need to get my carry on bag. I have to get off of the plane. I have to walk this direction. When you know where you are going because you have developed a sense of purpose, you know exactly what to do! Imagine having that kind of confidence in every situation you find yourself in because you understand your purpose and value in life! You would be unstoppable, wouldn’t you?!
That leads us into a discussion of determination. When you know your purpose and where you want to end up it focuses your thoughts and actions and gives you a sense of conviction and determination. It fixes your attention on where you want to go and NOTHING will stop you! People that value themselves are confident. Confident people have a purpose which defines their thoughts and actions and confident people are determined to fulfill their purpose in this life!
Again, when you really feel that confidence, the judgement of other people won’t matter so much. That is not to say this gives you permission to disregard people. It does give you permission to do the next right thing and let go of the fear of being judged for it! I have learned in life that you can do everything right and someone might still judge you for it! Confident people listen to the opinions of others, takes them into account, compares them to their own sense of right and wrong, and makes a confident decision.
If you were twice as confident as you are now, your life would be AMAZING, wouldn’t
Using proven techniques enjoyed by superstars around the world in sports, music, acting, and experts in every field, you will find that hypnosis can help you get into an excellent state and focus on the right things to make yourself successful in any environment.
You have YOUR side of the loop and they have THEIR side of the loop. You feed into their loop and they feed into yours. Change your loop and change their loop and change the relationship.
Imagine what would happen if you can “forget” about your physical or emotional discomfort even a few minutes a day. Think about how your life would change.
Pretend for a second you didn’t have that pesky habit… you know the one I am talking about! Suppose you got rid of it and how much better your life would be when it was gone.