Emotional pain can severely affect what kind of relationships we get into and how they go. I had a very good friend tell me once “water finds its own level” which means that if there is a flood all of the water will tend to go to the same point. Likewise, if I am feeling shame or guilt- if I think I am not worthy of love or to be treated right, guess what kind of person I am going to attract into my life?! Someone who feels the same way about themselves?! If I feel bad about myself and cannot love or be loved because I don’t feel worthy, guess how my relationships are going to look?! Maybe that is why you are here… because you keep getting into the same crappy relationships over and over and you don’t know why!
Let’s say you are in a relationship with someone who doesn’t value themselves due to the fact you have trouble valuing yourself and it is miserable. A lot of people try to change the other person and are typically not successful, are they?! You can’t change the other person but you can change yourself, can’t you!?
When you use hypnosis to clear out the pain that is caused by past hurts or mistakes and start to feel more valuable and confident, the people you are in relationships with may change as well to keep up, or they may not change at all and exit your life. And when you do get the point of valuing yourself more and feeling more confident, you will attract the same kind of people into your life.
Maybe that’s what prevents you from making the changes that you need to make- the fear of losing people who are currently in your life, even if that relationship is less than perfect. The more you feel you value and the confidence that flows from that, the more you will see your intrinsic worth and not NEED the validation from other people! That is where true happiness begins!
In the end, it all comes down to loving and being loved. When you value yourself you will value other people. When you value yourself and others, you can let yourself be loved (because you can realize that you deserve it) and you can love other people (because you will see that THEY deserve it). Isn’t that what it is all about?!
What would life be like if you could more perfectly love and be loved!?
Using proven techniques enjoyed by superstars around the world in sports, music, acting, and experts in every field, you will find that hypnosis can help you get into an excellent state and focus on the right things to make yourself successful in any environment.
You have YOUR side of the loop and they have THEIR side of the loop. You feed into their loop and they feed into yours. Change your loop and change their loop and change the relationship.
Imagine what would happen if you can “forget” about your physical or emotional discomfort even a few minutes a day. Think about how your life would change.
Pretend for a second you didn’t have that pesky habit… you know the one I am talking about! Suppose you got rid of it and how much better your life would be when it was gone.